Threesome has been one of the
most common fantasies for couples and singles, according to a 2016 Archives of
Sexual Behavior Study. 82 percent of surveyed men and 31 percent of the
surveyed women declare they have fantasized about joining a threesome at least
once, in the last year. It indicates that both men and women, are expressing a
high interest in threesome hookups. However, the percentage of men engaging in a
same-sex threesome is much lower, compared with women. About 17.4 percent of
women have had a threesome dating with another woman, while only about 6.2 percent of
men have had a threesome with another man. Obviously, men are more likely to
engage in a threesome with two women called FMM threesome and on the other
hand, women intend to take part in a FFM threesome.
There are so many reasons can
explain this phenomenon, and one of the main reasons is that men though they
will be treated as kinky guys or even gays when their family or friends knew
they were engaging in a FMM threesome in the past. It is true that FMM
threesomes seem more stigmatized and less acceptable to the people with
traditional views, while actually, they are quite as same as FMM threesomes.
But recently, research from a
PhD. Doctor of Birmingham City University, Dr. Ryan Scoats, has discovered that
young people are more flexible to participate in MMF threesomes. According to
his research, one sixth of the men he surveyed had had a threesome with a man.
Although the sample size is small with only 30 young men, he still believes
that straight men are becoming more comfortable with same-sex activities. “Men
feel easier and freer when they are having threesomes with another man now, and
they aren’t afraid of being criticized by others.” Dr. Scoats says.
Meanwhile, another survey
conducted by 3rder – one of the best online threesome dating apps with about
100 thousand users – revealed an interesting fact that about 69 percent of
single women would like to participate in a threesome with two men which may be
one of the main reasons why there are more straight men are joining FFM
threesomes.
No matter what makes men want to
come with FFM threesomes, it is true that all of them have totally been
satisfied in threesomes. Because threesomes are adventurous and full of
excitement, people are fantasizing about engaging in threesomes, regardless of
which type of threesomes is their preference.